The Role of Pets in Domestic Violence Situations

 

Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that affects millions of people every year. One often-overlooked aspect of this problem is the impact on pets in domestic violence situations. Animal abuse often accompanies domestic violence, and both humans and pets deserve to get out safely. Addressing this issue is crucial to ensure the safety and well-being of all victims.

 

The Link Between Domestic Violence and Animal Abuse

 

Studies show a strong correlation between domestic violence and animal abuse. Statistics reveal that up to 75% of pet-owning women entering domestic violence shelters report that their abuser had threatened, harmed, or killed their pets, with children present over 90% of the time. Abusers often use pets as a means of exerting control and intimidation over their victims, knowing the emotional bond between the victim and their pet.

 

The Emotional Bond Between Victims and Their Pets

 

For many victims of domestic violence, pets provide vital emotional support and companionship. The bond between a victim and their pet can be incredibly strong, making the decision to leave an abusive situation even more difficult. Victims often fear for their pets’ safety and well-being, which can delay or prevent them from seeking help.

The Animal Legal Defense Fund Reports that more than half of women in domestic violence situations delay leaving their abusers out of fear for their pets.

 

Shelby Safe Pet Program

 

At SafeHouse, we understand the importance of keeping both human and animal victims safe. That’s why we partner with Shelby Safe Pet, a vital program mased out of the Shelby County Humane Society. This program serves 20 Alabama counties, providing temporary foster care for pets of domestic violence victims. Safe housing for pets means that domestic violence victims can leave dangerous situations without worrying about their pet’s safety. The Shelby Safe Pet program connects victims with foster families who care for their pets until they can find stable, safe housing.

 

Tips for Keeping Pets Safe in Domestic Violence Situations

 

If you or someone you know is in a domestic violence situation and worried about their pets, consider the following tips to keep them safe:

  • Identify a Trusted Caregiver: Find a trusted friend, family member, or organization that can temporarily care for your pet in an emergency.
  • Prepare a Pet Emergency Kit: Pack a kit with essential items like food, water, medication, and important documents such as vaccination records.
  • Keep Records: Maintain up-to-date records of your pet’s health and ownership to ensure a smooth transition if temporary care is needed. Updated records and pet-care documentation in your name (vet bills, animal licenses, pet expense receipts, adoption paperwork) may also help you prove your ownership claim in a fight for pet custody.
  • Be Aware: If your pet is microchipped, make sure the abusive partner is not listed as one of the contacts. Try not to leave your pet outside unattended, especially if your abuser knows your location. Also check your pet’s belongings for airtags. It is becoming more and more common for abusers to hide airtags in pet’s and children’s toys to track victims.

 

Please check out this article from DomesticShelters.org for more tips on protecting yourself and your pet from domestic violence.

 

Call to Action

 

Programs like Shelby Safe Pet are vital in supporting both human and animal victims of domestic violence. We encourage our community to support these efforts by fostering pets or donating to help maintain these essential services. Your support can make a significant difference in the lives of those affected by domestic violence. Please check out the Shelby Safe Pet webpage to learn more about how you can help.

 

If You Need Help:

 

If you are seeking safety, please reach out. Most domestic violence agencies will be able to direct you to resources for yourself and your pets.

SafeHouse: offers free and confidential counseling services, support groups (call to see if we’re currently active), emergency shelter, advocacy, and resources for individuals who have experienced domestic violence or sexual assault. SafeHouse supports Shelby, Coosa, Clay, and Chilton Counties in Alabama. Call 205-669-7233 (SAFE).

National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) (TTY: 1-800-787-3224) or visit www.thehotline.org for 24/7 confidential support, crisis intervention, and resources.