March is Women’s History Month, and in recognition, we are highlighting five powerful speeches on Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence by women. As we honor the contributions and resilience of women throughout history (for example, did you know that, in addition to fighting for racial justice, Rosa Parks was an advocate for survivors of sexual assault?), we recognize the urgent need to amplify contemporary voices in addressing these pressing issues. The following talks reflect a mixture of hope, progress, exhaustion and dejection. They include stories of victim-survivors and advocates. All demand societal change for prevention and empathy in support of survivors.
Why domestic violence victims don’t leave
Leslie Morgan Steiner’s talk delves into the complexities of domestic violence. She explores why victims often struggle to leave abusive relationships. Drawing from her own personal experience, Steiner shares insights into the psychological and social dynamics that keep victims trapped in abusive situations. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the fear, shame, and isolation that victim’s face. Her hope is to challenge common misconceptions about why people stay in abusive relationships. Steiner’s talk highlights the need for empathy, support, and resources to empower survivors to break free from domestic violence.
How we turned the tide on domestic violence (Hint: the Polaroid helped)
In her talk, Esta Soler discusses her journey as an advocate for domestic violence prevention. She recounts the pivotal moments and strategies that led to a significant decrease in domestic violence against adult women. She emphasizes the importance of changing societal attitudes and implementing effective policies to prevent domestic violence and support survivors. Soler’s talk highlights the power of collective action and advocacy in creating positive social change.
Me Too is a movement, not a moment
Tarana Burke explores the origins and significance of the Me Too Movement in her Ted Talk. She discusses how the movement began as a grassroots campaign to support survivors of sexual violence, especially women of color. She addresses the prevalence of sexual harassment and assault in our society and emphasizes the importance of shifting the conversation from a focus on individual stories to a systemic change.
Burke also candidly discusses the emotional toll of her work. She reflects on the exhaustion and numbness she experienced as she listened to countless stories of trauma and abuse. Throughout the talk, she underscores the need for empathy and support for survivors, but also acknowledges the toll it takes on those who work and stand in solidarity.
How we talk about sexual assault online
Ione Well’s Ted Talk is a powerful exploration of the impact of social media on conversations surrounding sexual assault and harassment. Wells shares her personal experience of being assaulted and how the online response influenced her healing journey. She advocates for more compassionate and responsible discourse online to support survivors and challenge harmful attitudes regarding sexual violence.
The Impact of Sexual Violence
For another powerful exploration of the costs of sexual assault, listen to Chanel Miller read her victim impact statement addressing her perpetrator Brock Turner. The statement was first posted online when Miller was still known only as Emily Doe. Miller has since claimed her identity and written a profound and award-winning memoir about her experiences called Know My Name. In each of these pieces, she paints a picture of the harsh realities of survivorship, even when there is a so-called “perfect case” including eyewitnesses and evidence.
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