Every February, advocates, educators, and communities across the country recognize Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM), a time to shine a light on the prevalence of dating violence among young people and the importance of education in preventing abuse. At SafeHouse, we are committed to empowering teens with the knowledge and skills to build healthy relationships and to recognize and respond to unhealthy behaviors. Read on to learn what we’re doing about teen dating violence.
Why TDVAM Matters
Teen dating violence is more common than many realize—one in three adolescents in the U.S. experiences some form of abuse in a dating relationship. This can include physical violence, emotional manipulation, digital abuse, and controlling behaviors. Yet, many teens and adults struggle to recognize the warning signs, making prevention education critical. By fostering open conversations about healthy relationships, we can create safer environments for young people to thrive.
How SafeHouse is Taking Action
SafeHouse provides essential programming to support teens in developing safe, respectful, and supportive relationships. Our prevention efforts focus on three key areas:
Healthy Relationships Education
Through our interactive workshops, we teach teens what healthy, unhealthy, and abusive relationships look like. We explore key concepts like mutual respect, consent, communication, and boundary-setting, equipping young people with the tools to build positive relationships and identify red flags early on.
Digital Safety Awareness
In today’s digital world, technology plays a significant role in relationships. Our digital safety programs help teens recognize the dangers of online abuse, such as cyberstalking, coercive control, and harassment through social media or messaging apps. We provide guidance on setting digital boundaries, securing personal information, and navigating relationships safely in an online space.
Bringing in the Bystander
This evidence-based program empowers students to recognize warning signs of dating violence and take action to intervene safely. Teaching bystander intervention strategies not only helps prevent harm but also fosters a culture where speaking up against abuse is normalized and encouraged.
Real Impact: A Story of Change
In October 2024, SafeHouse delivered a healthy relationships workshop to 10th-grade health classes at rural school in our service area. This is a school where conversations about dating violence—especially among young men—are often rare. As the discussion unfolded, several boys exchanged knowing glances when hearing about controlling behaviors, showing that the message was resonating.
Two weeks later, when our prevention educator returned to the school, one student approached her and said, “Miss, you know how we learned about healthy and unhealthy relationships?” He went on to share that after reflecting on the workshop and discussing it with his mother, he decided to end a year-and-a-half-long unhealthy relationship. “I’m going to focus on me for a while,” he said.
This moment underscores why these conversations matter. Prevention education isn’t just about awareness—it’s about equipping teens with the tools to make empowered choices for their futures.
How You Can Support Teens During TDVAM
Building a culture of respect and safety for teens requires a community-wide effort. Here are a few ways you can get involved:
- Start Conversations: Talk to the teens in your life about what healthy relationships look like and encourage open, judgment-free discussions.
- Educate Yourself and Others: Learn about the signs of teen dating violence and share resources with your family, school, or workplace.
- Promote Digital Safety: Discuss online privacy, digital boundaries, and respectful online behavior with young people.
- Encourage Bystander Intervention: Teach teens that they have the power to support their peers by recognizing and addressing unhealthy behaviors.
- Support Prevention Programs: Advocate for comprehensive relationship education in schools and community organizations.
Join Us in Raising Awareness
Throughout February, SafeHouse will be hosting workshops and sharing resources to amplify the message of TDVAM. We invite you to participate, whether by attending a workshop, sharing information on social media, or simply starting a conversation with a teen in your life. Together, we can create a future where every young person experiences safe and healthy relationships.
For more information on our programs or how to get involved, visit www.safehouse.org or contact us at safehouse@safehouse.org
Let’s work together to break the cycle of dating violence and build a future rooted in respect, safety, and empowerment.
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